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i have a korean male friend who once told me that i cant like hj because "you know in the reality show...his partner...they like each other."
i pretended that i wasnt that interested about wgm (so that i wont influence his opinion).
me: i saw an episode of that. yeah, he likes the girl, doesnt he.
maybe, he even likes her more than she likes him.
(shrugging)
him: why? she likes him too.
me: well, he touches too much.
him: men want skinship. it is different from love.
(he looked like an oppa to a younger sister that time. it was quite cute and i felt a little guilty for fooling him^^)
maybe hb already thought about that.
attraction is not really love (yet).
they were suppose to pretend like a married couple, right? since we all know that these two try to do their best in everything that they do--- they wanted to be the best partner, for the sake of the show/viewership.
but in the process of working well as an entertainer, things got complicated when they started to be affected by the other person--for real, not just pretend.
so what do you do?
stop to let things cool down, THINK to re-evaluate, then decide.
filming the flower drama = perfect timing to clear their heads.
if they can be apart during the flower drama filming, they would have time to think about things in a more objective way.
based on what we've seen on wgm,i think it was hb who suggested this set-up.
so hj had good reasons to be worried/and get MORE stressed out while filming.
WHAT IF SHE CHANGES HER MIND ABOUT LIKING HIM?
what if she realizes that hes not good enough?
what if a better guy visits her everyday, call her more than twice a day, make her fall in love with him?
the worst part is that hj cant do anything about it, but drop hints cause he had to work-- he is a hard-worker.
do you think he would be satisfied just dropping hints?
whats the difference between him and the other guys who drop hints?
micky-yunho also do it. ive mentioned once about hj getting older and being ready for a more serious relationship, arent they all in the same age range?
he said he will steal his friend's girl.
naturally, he would be afraid that other men(even his friends) would also try to do the same thing.
PLUS, she isnt/wasnt even his woman YET.
its not about because he doesnt trust her, he just doesnt trust the men around her.
remember, the protective-jealous shillang?
note: and hes right too! did you see that fakeminho-creep who stole a kiss from her in IG?! grr.
hj in wgm was an action-guy, he didnt really talk much about his feelings--he acted on them.
if he expresses his affection through actions, how can he make her feel him with her heart if he is not around her?
since hj wants to win her and make her forget the others, he thinks of better strategies and bigger gimmicks. but he still probably thought those werent enough so it adds to his flower-drama concerns.
just imagine, if one of her admirers decides to do something crazy like visit hb in IG, what can hj do while hes playing yellow-haired boy in macau? what about those other men who are older, richer, more experienced, and would always be there for her?
the brave statements in interviews, hj's consistent answers, accessories, clothes, talking about buin-related things than jandi-related moments, songs: because im stupid, happiness, BE MY GIRL.
were they all because the man was/is trying to woo her?
showing her that whatever he expressed to her in Wgm was true, and not because he was "confused" between whats real and fake. letting her realize that outside wgm, even after theyve stopped being "ssangchu", he is still that same guy who did all those cheesy things. the same guy who is still trying to do cheesy things for "that girl" up to now,lovely girl, hyejung~ (hbs CY)
if you have reached reading up to this part.....
so theres "something" BUT they might not be together at all.
why should we be happy, then?
because of her CY.
hb's lovenote to hj: "the man who does well even when im not around is my handsome shillang."we can assume that hb is the type of girlfriend who lets her man work and play without checking up on him too much.i dont think she likes needy men who needs to be reassured all the time because she herself is quite independent.
so why does she still put hints on her hompy that were too obvious for fans/antifans?
possibly to:
-REASSURE HIM.
even though they are not officially a couple, hb wants to let him know that she will wait for him~
its like shes saying, yes, you have a chance. but lets talk about it when youre done with your work.
i guess thats why hj "mustve been REALLY HAPPY to finish BOF, that he even had a party". (-my friend said this)
-even IF they talk on the phone, like him, she cant say mushy things, so she needs to write them down/show them through pictures/icons.
-the antifans may say that she doesnt have the right to be so familiar with their leader, she shouldnt put hints on her CY that would be tied to hj.
BUT she is still confident because its their beloved leader who is wooing her and she has the upper hand, not him.
once, after wgm, she was asked, "do you have a boyfriend?" and she easily said "no".
she wasnt really dating him yet so she isnt really lying to people.
BUT still, her friends tease her about getting a lot of love.
shia had a boyfriend, but she didnt get teased. they were always teasing hb.
thats how usually girl-friends act when one of their friends has a suitor.
notice that the interviewer asked hj, do you have someone you love right now (rough trans).
and he said, "yes."
if he had been asked if he had a girlfriend and he said "yes", people would go crazy.
if he said "no" then antifans would go happy-crazy and joongboers would be...well..sad.
AND it would be an announcement for any GUYS that were wondering--that hb was/is SINGLE.
a suitor wouldnt want that, would he?better for them to assume so that they would keep her distance from her.
so the question was a good one, very safe but advantageous for HIM.
if you watch some of hj's interviews with hb's friends (khd, mc yoo, etc.) watch the way they look at hj.
personally, i kinda felt that her male friends look at him like he was an "interesting, mature, good kid/guy" while her female friends seem to look at him like hes this brave, manly, prince.
maybe they all admire him for his determination and are cheering him on in his mission to get his girl.
idol or not, a younger man is still the one who will have to convince the older woman to give him a chance.
its not as if hb is some desperate hag, she once said that she was lucky to have met him.
but considering their individual status at the present, hes going to be the luckier one in the relationship, not her.
shillang, if you are reading this, i didnt insult you, i just praised buin.im sure you also agree with me.
HB: "whatever happens in the future, ill just deal with it then." (rough trans)
are you going to deal with it now?
are you worried that he will just make you cry?
if he makes you cry, you have all your friends who will kill him.
regardless of what will happen, he will be forever seen as that flowerboy/ss5leader punk who hurt the genuine, loving, and happy, natural girl Hwangbo.
*cough* not to mention you probably have more male friends than female ones, and most of them know martial arts *cough*
but hes not stupid to commit a (career)suicide that way, and he isnt the type who promises things lightly.
with all the things that hes said and done, isnt it safe to assume that he is really serious with you, unni?
if you havent said yes yet, please do.
the flower drama is over and spring is the season for new beginnings.
please give shillang his happiness.
im sure he will also work harder to make you happy.
make this year a good one for all of us~
hwangbo hyejung, say OKAY.
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