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khondee.com's magazine online : Dhammada
Volume : 6 : 2011
ILLUTION and TRUTH
Mike Pirat Nithipaisarnkul.
Mike Pirat Nithipaisarnkul has started his career since 10 year ago when he was 11. As an idol for teenagers, he doesnt get any regret of lacking his own teenage life. He has imagined his own life if he wasnt a super star, what would it be? He might spend time mostly on studying, playing games, watching movies, spending money and going out with friend. So everyday would be simple and stable which contradicts to his character, being enthusiastic to see new things. Or is this might be the destiny bringing him to Grammy for its first idol contest which selected 2 people from about 700 people? And Golf and Mike has been the ones.
When I was young, I just thought that it was fun to meet friend for dance rehearsal, 6 day per week, after finishing study. During waiting for the rehearsal, I usually did my homework but when I didnt have much time to do home work, I would do it later after finishing the rehearsal. I rehearsal home around 11 pm or midnight and woke up at 5 am to go to school because my house is far from the school. I was tired much but enjoyed it much as well. I was not serious or did not get any stress at all. In contrary to nowadays, its very tired and stressed. But in real life everything has both sides. The bright side is that I am well-know, important and accepted but for the other side I am not being myself. I have to think much more than others and I cant do exactly what I want to.
The nature of human is when they already are what they want, they normally keep wanting to be another. Like me, I am super star, an actor or whatever they call, but I wish to be an ordinary person. On the other side, an ordinary teenager, if there is a problem occurs, its so difficult for him to find the best solution. But for him, he has to face many complicated problems continually. With a mighty heart, he can recover from suffering again and again. The way he manages a problem is considering and focusing on it, trying to solve the problem to release the huge suffering away.
You have to open your mind. On the certain period of time, your mind would understand to let go. The problem would be organized easier when you dont think too much. I had encountered many times of crying and suffering. I have found out that I have to let it be. I know what I cant do anything much What will be will be , everything comes into existence, persist and then pass away which has been revealed by Lord Buddha. Dont just say it but do it.
Releasing is not that easy. Human beings heart is easily impacted; suffering makes you sad and cry because youre attached to it. However, when you finally come to realize that it is only normal, that suffering will become small; something that happens to everyone in daily life.
When there is something intensely impacting heart, only a few people, even adults, has the ability to understand how to release the problem. But only at this age, he is able to let go and release. This is because he has been instructed by his mother who taught him how he also had a chance to take Vipassana insight meditation course.
He wants teenagers to understand that going to temple is not embarrassing and making merit is a normal thing to do. Temple, prayer and sermon are alternatives if they feel like going out.
For them, I am an Idol. I would utilize this fact. I dont either drink or smoke. I normally go to temples, pray, listen to Dhamma sermon and practice meditation. When people see this, Ill be seen as an example; Mike can do those so why cant I ? When they start to learn and practice by themselves, then they will understand that happiness lies nowhere but inside your own mind.
Mikes image is not only a teenager who has been lucky enough to be given the path of fame, but he is also a young man who is capable to do many thing more than his age and takes this success road which leads his life to overseas. But when starting to view himself outward, he found out that this is all about image which cannot be held on. Nevertheless, he has tried his best to maintain his image as a good teenage idol given that he is worried about the feelings of others who look up to his appearance. Most people believe what they see, not what it really is.
I am in the limelight. People always see me which makes me feel uncomfortable and distressed as there is always a person staring at me and stabbing me before disappearing in the dark that we cant see. Im feeling insecure and have to be careful every single day and minute. No matter what I do; walk alone, walk with friends or go out with anyone, Ive never felt safe. It turned out that, even when I hang out with friends, I have to be alone as I was anxious. Luckily, I am an optimist, always looking at thing at the bright side, trying to things the opposite that bad thoughts will only make things worse and positive thinking is the only way to make ones happy.
It is difficult for human to eliminate love, greed, anger and lust as long as they still live in the society where they are willingly wrapped with adherence and fascination. If this tall, fair-skinned singer stands beside a regular guy at the same age to distinguish differences, the only thing spotted different is their appearance while things inside their body are all the same; bones and organs covered by skin. But it is usual for people to always look for what can be obviously seen so the truth will never be revealed; inside taste, scent, sound and feel remain untouched.
Pirat Nithipaisarnkul said he is not attached to being a singer or an actor but it is only duty he has to carry on and a tough goal he has to reach. So he must always review his thoughts and monitor his as he wholeheartedly understands that adherence causes distress and finding solutions from within is best. A superstar with perfect figure and looks like him is undoubtedly cherished by all Thai girls, even Asian girls. Is the perception of love of this young man, whose eyes are bright and shiny enough to make girls fall for him, similar to those who look at attractive facial beauty or physical appearance?
I live in the society where there are lots of beautiful girls and cant deny that they are. But my thoughts have changed after getting back from the inside meditation course; what is inside counts. A simple looking woman with a good heart is a truly beautiful woman. No matter how beautiful woman are, if they dont have a beautiful mind, its not going to work. The cycle will be like I decide to see someone, she breaks up with me. I feel sad and cry, I recover, I see a new girl and get along well together for a while, breaks up and recover again.
This is the way people live their lives because they dont concentrate on themselves but, instead, they depend on others. The most important thing weve been seeking our whole life may lie beneath us. Love always brings us happiness and sorrow. You have to know how to love and live wisely.
The opinion of this young man is more mature than his age so is his goal in life. When the goal is beyond reach, we have to stretch ourselves out and remain in the right track.
Although we are still on the road leading there, just be optimistic. What we have to do as long as we still breathe is to keep going. If the goal is really important, you have nothing to do but succeed.
Ive dreamed to be an artist and a businessman famous the world over while being a family man with a happy family. But it be alright if I cant achieve it. High expectation doesnt cost a thing anyway. A goal is not hard to get if we insist to do so. I set the target and make it as planned. I wont worry about anything that doesnt come yet.
When there are any difficulties and you want to let them go, you have to stay with the present, which is the best solution. Dont think about the past or worry about the future.
You can also make plans for the future but should not be worried about it. You can earn more money if you lose all money you have. You can cure your sickness when you have health problem. But what you cant recall is time. Therefore, being with the present is my best answer to every problem.
If present is his last answer, he is now the real idol of teenagers in 2011.
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