ความคิดเห็นที่ 25
~~~~~ Once again...~~~~~
Some of us know this already, but it never hurts to remind ourselves of this (or our daughters or sons, and maybe some of our friends)
1. If a woman/man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay
2. Stop making excuses for a woman/man and his behavior
3. Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache 4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be
5. Slower is better
6. Never live your life for a woman/man before you find what makes you truly happy
7. If a relationship ends because the woman/man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend
8. Don't settle
9. If you feel like he/she is stringing you along, then he/she probably is
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better" You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you 12. Avoid woman/man who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman/man. He/she didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? 13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his 14 Maintain boundaries in how a guy/girl treats you. If something bothers you, speak up
15. Never let a woman/man know everything. He will use it against you later
16. You cannot change a woman/man behaviors. Change comes from within 17. Don't EVER make him/her feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job 18. Do not make him/her into a quasi-god. He is a woman/man, nothing more nothing less
19. Never let a woman/man define who you are
20. Never borrow someone else's woman/man
21. If he/she cheated with you, he'll/she'll cheat on you
22. A woman/man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you
23 All woman/man are NOT dogs/bitches
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street
25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary
27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right 28. Make him/her miss you sometimes...when a woman/man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted 29. Never move into his/her mother's house 30. Never co-sign for a woman/man
and 31. Don't fully commit to a woman/man who doesn't give you everything that you need (not want)
Keep him/her in your radar but get to know others. Pass this on. You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices and another woman/man prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them,
and an entire life to forget them...
จากคุณ :
Jennifer Lowclass
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