ความคิดเห็นที่ 44
"ทำไมมีคนรู้ว่าเราอยู่โครงการ AFS หงะ" Because AFS is the only program in Thailand that sends students to other countries than the States, Australia, or UK ja :)
I knew you were AFS too when I first read it and I think you're #47 or something, right?
I kinda agreed with K.Syd-com that you shouldn't care about them because sometimes striking back could create more problems to you na ja. I was also a counsellor to a nice naive Thai girl who went to Spain. She was so sweet and innocent. Then, she got insulted many times and there were abuses from those Spanish mofos just because they didn't like Asians. She kinda fought back and those people didn't stop and they started to bother her even more. Things got worse and out of control after that and later on, her family decided to have her come back to Thailand cuz they weren't so sure about their daughter's security!
From what I've read, I think you're also a naive and patient na ja. The reason why I say this is because a strong + real person would just fight back at that same second he gets attacked and wouldn't keep it to himself. I'm not saying that you're coward or anything but that's not totally you. SO, I'd suggest you to ignore them ja because you don't wanna face with any bad consequences, right? I mean, if they actually start to hit you or sexually harass you, would you be able to get away from them or fight back? If you think you can, then fight back. If not, just ignore those people and move on with your life ja.
I think for one problem, each person has his own way to deal with it, let it be anything. You can't just do whatever others think it's right! You've gotta know whether you can have things under control when it really comes to that time!
Hope it helps na ja! Relax na :)
Just want you to know that many AFSers have to face that problem! I've been there and done that.. I didn't fight back when people called me Chinita all the time and gave me an unpleasant look. I didn't say anything when they made slanted eye to mess with me. I didn't do anything when they were mocking me in front of the classroom.. and I don't regret for those actions! I know that if I really insulted them back, I wouldn't have been able to keep things under control and things could have gotten worse!
So, think about what I'm saying na ja ^^
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