ความคิดเห็นที่ 21
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For all the readers of Sticks newsletters that still feel that they are in love with a Thai girl / woman, whether bar girl, prostitute, working girl, office girl, or what have you, NEVER, NEVER MARRY A THAI WOMAN - ANY THAI WOMAN. I cannot over stress this enough. After the initial honeymoon is over, in 1 - 5 years, you will regret ever knowing the woman. Upon reading the following, you, the reader can decide for himself the MYTH and the FACTS. Reading Sticks newsletters, as well as other published media, I have found the following basic themes:
1. A THAI GIRL IS FORCED INTO PROSTITUTION AND INTO BECOMING A BAR GIRL. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG.
The THAI girl of TODAY (90% plus) and I suspect for the past 5 - 10 years, have MADE THE CHOICE THEMSELVES to get into prostitution and become bar girls. They MAY have had SOME pressure from family OR INFLUENCE FROM OTHER BAR GIRLS in deciding to become a bar girl / prostitute, BUT they were not forced into it.
For the past 5 - 10 years the THAI girl has lost her virginity between 12 and 15 years of age to boyfriends not raped as a lot of them would have you believe. They are not and were not SOLD by family into a life of prostitution (a very, very small percentage of THAI pre-teens and early teen VIRGINS are sold to THAI MALE DOMINATED BROTHELS which IS a rotten shame - BUT NOT TO FARANGS).
So why do they become bar girls and prostitutes? What motivates them into becoming bar girls / prostitutes? MONEY AND LUXURY. They love GOLD, jewellery, televisions, stereos, CLOTHES, etc.
There are also 2 kinds of poor in Thailand - the poor of Bangkok that sleep in the streets, under bridges, never bathe, no money, etc. These people you pity.
The second kind - The Poor Thai Bar Girl - is not to be pitied! They have, BACK IN THEIR VILLAGE, a house with a roof, they have a family, they have neighbours like themselves, they have food to eat, etc. So why did they leave the village - GREED. The village life would require them to work in the rice fields making 100 - 120 Baht a day! This they will not do. They will not SOIL their hands with day-to-day labor in the rice fields AND MOST OF THEM ARE TOO DUMB OR LAZY TO LEARN A TRADE. The FACT is that there are many things that the Thai girl could learn to do but these jobs do not pay you 10,000 plus baht a month!
THE PROSTITUTE IS THE FAMILY INCOME STREAM, HELPS THE EXTENDED FAMILY, SENDS MONEY TO THE FAMILY, A WAY OUT OF POVERTY FOR FAMILY, ETC. THESE ARE STORIES THAT HAVE BEEN TOLD OVER AND OVER AS FACTS.
The Thai prostitute / bar girl DO NOT send money to the family. If the family is lucky they may get a token gift of 1,000 to 5,000 Baht once a year during Songkran (Thai New Years when young people honour their parents by pouring perfumed water over their hands) when the prostitute / bar girl visits the family.
Most Thai rural village families do not live in poverty. They have land to do their rice farming or cattle that hopefully provide offspring that can be sold year after year. If the family does not have land or cattle, those that do, hire the people for 100 to 120 Baht per day to sow and cultivate the rice crop. But that is very little money - a pittance - to live on? Not in the rice farming villages. You have to live in one to really understand how the system works - bartering and hand-outs, etc. The people are not rich and they are not starving. AND THEY ARE HAPPY.
If the bar girl / prostitute is not giving the money to the family, what are they doing with their money? Good question. They do not buy cars, they do not build houses for their old age, they do not buy cattle so that they can sell the offspring, they do not buy land, etc. It appears that the prostitute is only interested in a good time!
Remember, these are women that have very little in the way of education. They were not instructed in how to save and spend money and if you try to teach them about banks and savings, as I have tried to do, they will not listen to you. To them, GOLD is the only commodity worth having because if they are badly in need of money they will sell their gold!
THE POOR THAI BAR GIRL IS TRYING TO FIND A HUSBAND.
They are looking for that proverbial pot of GOLD at the end of the rainbow and most believe that they can attain that GOLD by marrying a STUPID farang. IN THEIR EYES, THAI EYES, WE, THE FARANG ARE STUPID TO MARRY THEM. MANY ORDINARY THAIS, AND PROSTITUTES AS WELL, HAVE STATED THIS ON NUMEROUS OCCASIONS. THEY ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH US, THE FARANG, THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH OUR MONEY.
So, what the hell does he no about Thai woman, you ask? Currently I am living in a Northern province of Thailand and have been for over 3 years and prior to that I had over 30 years of travel throughout all of Thailand, staying in several places for a year or more. In addition, I have been married to a Thai woman for 34 years, after only 7 days of courtship where she resided / worked in a brothel, and of these 34 years (408 months) I can honestly say that for the grand total of 48 of these months we lived in harmony, peace, sex was great, we did not want to kill each other, etc. It is a very, very long story which I will not go into here except to say that my upbringing, respect of marriage vows, children, etc. has a lot to do with me staying married and putting up with ALL THE B...S... for as long as we have. Prior to marrying my wife I spent many months running with the Thai women of Bangkok and elsewhere. I do not have a count of the number of woman I had been with except to say that it may have been a hundred.
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