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มีบทสัมภาษณ์คุณแม่มารัตมาฝากค่ะ ชอบมากค่ะ
ชอบที่คุณแม่ให้สัมภาษณ์ว่า บังคับให้มารัตกับดินาร่าเรียนพีเศษวันเสาร์ เพราะอยากให้ชอบอ่านหนังสือ และทำให้มารัตชอบอ่านหนังสือจนตอบสัมภาษณ์แบบที่เป็นอยู่ปัจจุบัน
แล้วก็ชอบที่ว่า ให้ลูก ๆ เลี้ยงหมากับแมวที่สนามที่แม่ไปสอน เพราะอยากให้รักสัตว์ แม้ว่าหมอแนะนำว่าไม่ควรเลี้ยงสัตว์ที่บ้าน
ภาษามันแปลก ๆ หน่อยค่ะ คงเพราะแปลมาจาก google มั๊งคะ
http://www.menstennisforums.com/showthread.php?t=141325&page=200#2987
http://www.freshjournal.ru/db/print/941/
Rouse SAFINA: education Champions
Irina Sokol
Interview with the master of sports of international class tennis, deserved trainer of Russia and his mother's most famous tennis players of Russia - Dinara and Marat Safin
We have appointed our meeting in a cozy cafe on the Moscow Patriarch's Ponds in the first half of the day. And in an interview with me Rouse Muhamedzhanovna came - oh my! - From Sandunov. It turns out that the real fans of a bath most appreciate is the fresh and clean first pair, and by 8 am and rush to the steam room. Therefore, questions about the secrets of good health and keeping yourself in great shape almost immediately disappeared, and we Rouse Muhamedzhanovnoy talked about his childhood, Marat and Dinara, on its methods of education and family values.
- Rouse Muhamedzhanovna, tell me, you probably know some secret technology - how to grow from a child of the Olympic champion? At what age should c him play sports?
- You just can not raise the question - "grow a champion." First of all, I think, have to worry about how to raise a healthy child. And for this purpose - yes, you need to create conditions under which domestic - including. We have to make choices. For example, when my children were small, one doctor said that to raise healthy children, no living creatures in the house should not be. I complied with this rule. Although, at the same time, I believe that communication with animals, make children kinder, so I let the children feed the dog and cat, who lived near the stadium "Spartak" on Shiryaevo field where I worked.
Or here's another point: when Marat went to tournaments begin at 9 am. So he had to come on the court somewhere for an hour, hours in the 8 - to warm up, prepare. And what was revealed then in any city at 8 am? Nothing - no dining room or cafe. And what we did: Marat has always traveled with a backpack, which was a little electric. I took along some food and cooked a hot meal. Because I can not imagine how you can before the competition to give the child only a sandwich with tea. As a result - Marat good health and success in tennis, and many other athletes - health problems, up to a stomach ulcer.
- Probably you children - unquestioned authority?
- Rather, we can talk about respect, not of authority. I never tried to present an outstanding coach, never in the interview did not think about their successes in the sport. Moreover, these advances now seem to me as trivial - Tennis is quite another to play at a much higher level. No matter what our age, and to compare, say, 18-th century. And I have always shared these roles: I was at home for their children's mother, but on the court I - Rouse Muhamedzhanovna, coach. And the coach I have the same requirement to all children, including, and his. What may differ, my upbringing - is that I myself raised her children without shifting the process of grandparents. For that time I was pretty late in her first child, Marat - I was almost 32 years. (There is, incidentally, is no longer considered "late"). I decided that I would deal with a lot of possible child herself, relatives plugged only when absolutely necessary - leaving for the trip, for example, after working in a sports school, I traveled a lot. But more often I would take children with them to work, that they were next to me.
And, thanks to this principle - as you can spend more time with children, do not consign them, I was able to realize our idea of how to educate children. It is fortunate that we have with Mikhail Alekseevich, my husband always held the same views on how to educate children, and their actions were in solidarity - we have not ever been such that his mother was something permitted and Dad - no, and vice versa. We were at the same time. And if any problems arise - we have never solved them with children, serious conversations we were alone. But what parents do now? I recently came to me, my friend, she came with her granddaughter. And then a friend started to discuss with me nurse this little girl - and we do not. Yes, sometimes we adults make mistakes, and we should discuss them - but not for children.
- Sportsmen - people gathered and disciplined. You are strictly brought up their children?
- Previously I used to say that I am strict. But then all confess that I just can not do better than all the children. And I can see how the other children did not work - they spoiled, spoiled. I'm with my children than what would have been severe - I am serious approach to their education. For example, on the weekends with them dealt with the teacher, very good, I am very grateful to her: she put it to them, instilled a love of literature. And the fact that Marat is now giving such good interviews - it is also its merit. Why I invited home teacher? I thought that they must necessarily make up for what they missed when they were traveling, at competitions. Kids, I explained that these exercises is not as tedious as it sounds. I told them: "The light day, say, from 8 am to 20 pm and - eto12 o'clock, 4 o'clock, if you dedicate one tuition, shall give" head "- this is a very small part of the day. But the remaining 8 hours - play as you want. "
- In general, it is hard for children to combine sport and education?
- If it is a serious, big-time sports - he will be in the first place, it must be understood. Marat very good talent for learning languages, but once we decided to tie his career with tennis - on this and we are focused. One of the athletes, of course, simply buying the diplomas, and my children are no higher education, and I did not think and did not think it necessary to buy a diploma - who this fool? I think it will be better when there will be time and interest to any discipline, to the occupation, they have the money will pay for lessons with teachers. Right now, Marat became interested in running the business - he studied it while alone. And he took in the control of a penny, that it began early this question to study. Although, generally speaking, have a desire Dinars to be a coach. But even she is considering eventually open a beauty salon or a business, close to that.
- To view Dinars Marat importantly, she listens to him?
- Marat, perhaps, the highest authority for it.
- And how do you cope with the awkward age - because your children at this difficult period, superimposed and physical exertion, and psychological - the successes and failures, experiences?
- Marat was easier - at this time he lived in Spain. And Dinara - a girl, they are not as "prickly". But, most importantly, we were always in contact with children, not drifted spiritually - it is very important, then we agreed on everything. We rejoice with them, disappointed, but, moreover, we could explain to them the reasons for these failures and successes - in the first place, with an adult, and second - from a position of an athlete, coach. It often often parents of children with tennis coach action do not understand, can be satisfied that the child has lost any competition. A coach at the same time knows that the tournament was the entrance, training, and should not have it "lay oneself out." So, parents, or should be permanently included in the process, or trust the coach completely. After all, coaches are always available for communication, explanation, support.
Lately, it seems to me that this work has become more difficult - because of the strong dependency on the number of pupils and their parents' income. But earlier there were other difficulties: the salary was minimal. Now mine are my friends, who trains, though complaining of life, but all the while riding on the good expensive cars. I'm on the first car itself has earned, when Marat had already gone to America, and Dinara went to school. I saw her off to school, walked into the hall and threw a boy [ie, coached him], and somewhere in a year I accumulated on the car. She for me was not only materially but also morally expensive. And when Marat learned to drive a car, he asked me to give him a ride in my car - and I am not allowed, said that it is not just a car, and my suffering. Marat offended then and I still do because of this worry. Generally, Marat still remembers some resentment toward me, and Dinara - no, do not recall.
- Do you think attention should punish the child - not physically, of course, but, say, leaving no play?
- You know me, and so it sometimes seems that I was robbed of their childhood - in fact they spend so much time with me on my work - that deprive them even with some kind of childish joy, I just could not. Another thing is that during their childhood and entertainment was not so much as segodyan. For example, I won the tournament dinar to buy Barbie - and it was time for her good reward.
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